It has been a while, since I last have this delighted mood to write a post.
I just upgraded my level in Happy Aquarium to Level 18. Hip hip hooray x3! Actually, I'm at Level 18 3 days ago. But when I woke up the next morning, I dropped back to Level 14. I was like, W-H-A-T?! My life has been a mess. One day I have, and the next day I lost it. But then I learnt, from the place I fell, to stand up and make my moves again. Trust me my friend, I have a real tough time doing so, but with all the support, the next step will be easier. =)
Tonight Carol and I had dinner at my room, we have rice, steamed egg with minced meat, fried lettuce with garlic, and "steamed" haddock fish fillet. "Beyond The Realm Of Conscience" was done watching(5 episodes in one go), but still, we need some entertainment! Hence, we opted "Hi My Sweetheart". My piece of mind about this movie? Normal love story with LAME happy ending. Sorry for the fans out there. However, there is one thing that I would like to share about after watching it.
So here goes the changing of channel.
有一幕是薛海和宝珠在咖啡厅谈话。
薛海问：“你为什么没有去赴约啊？”
宝珠迟疑了一下，答：“命运吧。”
薛海听了后很激动，说：“什么叫命运？命运是掌握在自己的手里的。”
宝珠回话：“命运有的时候是自己没办法掌握的，你知道吗？”
那一瞬间，我想了很多。他们俩都没错。
为什么说命运有的时候是自己没办法掌握的呢？因为，一切皆因，果。我们现在所承受的果报，都是因为我们过去，甚至是过去世所造的业。我们没有时光穿梭机，不能回到过去改变我们的所为，所以我们只能尝试以平常心去面对和接受。
又为什么说命运是掌握在自己的手里呢？也是因为因，果。虽然无法改变，但我们可以努力地去做好事，修福报，让自己以后的命运不会那么坎坷，这才是真正改变命运的方法。
可是我可以很坦白地说，遇到问题时要会这么想，真的，一点也不容易。
和韵怡聊天时，她说了这么一句话，“当事情发生时，不要硬应用我们听闻过的道理来套上去咯，这样会很辛苦。心力不够时，不要懊恼自己怎么这么差，修行不够，功夫用不上。”
她一针，讲中了要害。我一直很懊恼，为什么自己学会了这么多的佛法和道理，知道了无常，可是遇到问题时，却还是像世俗一般的愚痴，在烦恼堆中打滚。因为我忘了一点很重要的要点，我也只是凡人。当心受伤了，不能立刻命令它复原的；反而我们必须给它一些时间，让它平抚。
而这一段时间里，多谢了家人和朋友的支持。要你们每天对着像死鱼的我，真的很抱歉哦。我会渐渐，活过来的。
大家，加油哦！
^,^
elyciaholics:Heda™
9 years ago
9 comments:
嘿！哈哈！感谢你还没post完就告诉我即将有新post上场！看着电视剧，你知道，我通常很快地便完全投入于剧情当中，接着便跟着主角哭，笑。因为浪漫，因为快乐，让很多人都想追看下去，有时甚至会想希望结局不要那么快来。可是，像阿姜查说的，我们是否有看见那快乐不圆满的天性呢？哈哈，其实这是讲给自己听的。
是啊，要在遇到问题时运用佛法，真的不容易。但是，就是因为有这些困境，我们才能老老实实地看见自己的修行到哪里。艾霖姐有一篇文章说到，“所以多聞法，多省察內心，我們的心才會敏銳的察覺，我們遭遇的人與事，都是和內心的煩惱相應。這才有辦法讓自己提起決心去修行，修正念頭和思惟。 ” 我們遭遇的人與事，都是和內心的煩惱相應。不再怨天尤人，反而能生起决心，要把烦恼花城菩提。
jia you, dudu! i know u can do it de! give urself some time. Time is the best cure~ We are looking forward to the cheerful dudu. hope that next time when we meet, u are no longer四鱼一条！
good to see yr old self back :)
dudu dear~take ur time!we will alwys be with u. ^^
hehe .. jia you!
and if u think about it hor, i think your 命运 not bad also ler.. got so many ppl support you when you are down. :)) I would feel so loved if I were you. :D
dudu dear,
那天临走上巴士时，随口吩咐你要照顾我们的朋友，你没多想就冒出一句‘我也自身难保’。短短六个字，听起来却让人心痛不已！
加油啦~给自己空间+时间，不要把自己逼得紧紧的。。
虽然现在我不再住你的隔壁房，你不能随心所欲sampat，也没有sampat-mate，但是你可要记得：我们随时都在这里哦！
agree. lame ending. i watch that too. watch..skip watch...skip...then come to a lame ending. lol.
glad that she have past the words to you~~ ^_^
and you know what, i watch that after i am back from italy. and i realized the setting of the drama looks like venice to me. I doubt if i m missing italy too mich who knows i check online and i m not wrong...hehe. the "Hangzhou" for the first few epsiodes are shot in St Mark Square with the Bell tower, and also around venice.
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